So I’m one
week into my self-improvement experiment and have already made some decent
progress. On most days, I’ve managed to eat five servings of fruits and
vegetables. I’m also listening more attentively during meetings at work. I only
managed to call my parents once, but I’m figuring out how to make two calls
part of my weekly routine. I think I’ve been able to make these small changes
largely because of how easy they are.
This
probably shouldn’t be a surprise, since one of the best predictors of whether we
change our behavior is simply the effort required to do so. As you’ve probably
guessed, when the effort required goes up, the likelihood of success goes
down.
Keeping that
in mind, I’m trying to make small changes that create minimal disruption in my
daily routine. As an example, for my long-term goal of lowering my cholesterol,
I’ve set the modest initial goal of eating five servings of fruits and
vegetables a day. To make the change even easier, I’m making it a point to eat
fruits and vegetables that I actually like. This means I’m not forcing myself
to eat broccoli or cauliflower, which to me are only edible when covered in
either Thousand Island or ranch dressing. Instead, I’m eating carrots, grape
tomatoes, and strawberries, all of which I like. Each morning, I pack an
assortment of them and then snack throughout the day. Also to make things
easier on myself, I’m allowing a full 30 days to focus on my initial goal. This
should help not try to change too much too soon.
Once eating
five servings of fruits and vegetables becomes automatic – meaning it requires
almost no thought or effort on my part – I’ll move on to another modest goal
that also will help lower my cholesterol. I’ll take the same gradual approach
to becoming a better listener at work and to devoting more time to my family.
The key take
away is pretty straightforward: when trying to change your behavior, make it as
easy on yourself as possible. If you set small goals that require minimal
effort, you’ll dramatically increase your chances for long-term success.
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